一个学生对老师说自己已为别人准备好了许多"高染困变云帽子"(即阿谀奉承的话),老师责骂了他。学生告诉老师很少有人会像老师那样不喜欢听奉承的话,老师听了后十分高兴,夸赞学生。殊不知自己已经被戴上了"高帽子"。
俗以喜人面谀者曰"喜戴高帽".有京朝官出仕于外者,往别其师·师日:"外官不易为,宜慎之·''其人曰:"某备有高帽一百,适人辄送其一,当不至所龃龉也·''师怒曰:"吾辈直道事人,何须如此!''其人曰:"天下不喜戴高帽如吾师者,能生有几人欤?''师颔其首曰:"汝言不为无见·''其人出,语人曰:"吾高帽一百,今止存九十九矣·''
通常来自把喜欢别人当面阿谀的人称为:喜欢戴高帽子。有一个人准确备去外省做官,去和他的老师告别。老师说:"外省的官不好做,你应该谨慎从事。"那人说:"我准备了一百顶高帽,碰到人就送人一顶,应当不至于有矛盾货哪吃掌袁而不快。"老师很生气360百科,说:"我们应以忠直之道对待别人,为什么一定要这样做呢?"那人说:"天下像老师这样不喜欢戴高帽的人,能有几个啊?"老师点头说:"你的话也不是没有见识。"那人出来后,告诉别人说:"我一百顶高帽,现在只剩下九十九顶了。"
这个故事讽刺了那些不知不觉中就已经戴上高帽的人
这个故事说360百科明当局者迷。后用以比喻对人说恭维的话。
练 道理:生活中,我们要学会不去听那些阿谀奉承的虚假的话,要知道吧划破务九板良药苦口利于病,忠选督源件强意周来思演言逆耳利于行。
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the student reply:" Don't worry, master, I have been ready one hundred courtiers and I wi看二将灯联乐排耐往ll give the person I met one cou完耐马两乐杂联缺协黄rtier,which must satisfy the local persons.
The teacher scold the student seriously:"we ar般记学群车天e all the well-educated persons, how can you do such a thing?
The student pretend to show the embarrassing face and say:"there are few persons who dis服分育like being flattered and there are f若周盐强局标航宪晶ew perons like you.
The teacher feel happy after listening, nodding and say:"you are so correct!
This student tells his friends:"I have 资抓创燃规供犯却半协厂prepared for one hundred courtiers while they are 99 ones left."